Play With Me is about more than great toys — we provide the knowledge, resources and education to help you feel fully human and fully alive. Because real connection and real experiences can’t be simulated.

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More openness, better conversations and confidence to explore.

This real couple’s experience shows what curiosity, trust and communication can unlock. Curious? This one’s for you.

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Mr. X was a mess. His eyes got bigger and bigger as he was confessing all of this to a perfect stranger. But, he couldn't stop and I didn't stop him. At the end of the impromptu therapy session Mr. X asked me if we could hug it out. And we did.  

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Many of us are intrigued by the topic of BDSM. We also all have our own perception of what this entails - some scarier than others. It's a complex lifestyle and when it comes to where to start or what to do I'm sure the broader vanilla population feels the same - pretty much lost. With much humility, A* shares her experience with us - from how it makes her feel, how it's helped her grow sexually, right down to her favourite newly discovered fetishes that she never quite considered she'd enjoy!

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When our partners are too stressed for sex, we can be left feeling rejected. If you feel like your sex life is a big mess and you have no idea where to start in trying to improve it, have a look at this excerpt from one of my all time favourite books, Supersex ...

 

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What has generally been a fetish or kink practice is now becoming more of a mainstream treat as our South African women add these devices to their toyboxes for their lovers to enjoy... View Post

Sex o’Clock. Are we nearly there yet?

We agree, the phrase ‘Scheduled Sex’ doesn’t sound particularly sexy.

Let’s face it though, life creeps in to all the action that we could be having, and although we’ve been primed on the novelty of sex and the thrill of the chase, sometimes it just doesn’t pan out that way.

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