Mr. X was a mess. His eyes got bigger and bigger as he was confessing all of this to a perfect stranger. But, he couldn't stop and I didn't stop him. At the end of the impromptu therapy session Mr. X asked me if we could hug it out. And we did.
Many of us are intrigued by the topic of BDSM. We also all have our own perception of what this entails - some scarier than others. It's a complex lifestyle and when it comes to where to start or what to do I'm sure the broader vanilla population feels the same - pretty much lost. With much humility, A* shares her experience with us - from how it makes her feel, how it's helped her grow sexually, right down to her favourite newly discovered fetishes that she never quite considered she'd enjoy!
When our partners are too stressed for sex, we can be left feeling rejected. If you feel like your sex life is a big mess and you have no idea where to start in trying to improve it, have a look at this excerpt from one of my all time favourite books, Supersex ...