About us

Carmen Ely, Founder of Play With Me


Play. With. Me. Three words that are an experience, an invitation and a manifesto. Three words that are about fun, intimacy and a love of self.


While Play With Me is indeed a premium supplier of intimate adult products, what we believe in and what we strive for is so much more than that. I created the Play With Me brand in celebration of my own journey and the discovery of my own inner strength. It's important to take a refreshing, frank approach to sex, intimacy, adventure and indulgence, whether in ‘solo’ engagements or within a loving relationship.


Play With Me is a conversation starter. A place where we meet women and men who are looking for something more, even if they aren’t too sure what that ‘more’ is. While we are happy to provide a range of the very best intimate items, our vision includes an understanding where our clients are coming from emotionally, to look at the root causes of intimacy issues and unfulfilling physical and emotional relationships.


And so we return to Play With Me.


Play – Have fun, be naughty, be nice, be classy, be slutty in a classy way and discover what it is you really want.


With – Get intimate, understand, forgive, learn, work through issues of self-image and self-doubt. Remember what got your heart racing in the first place. Liberate, release and enjoy!


Me – Learn to love yourself again. Love your perfect imperfections. Before you can teach your partner how to love you and give you pleasure, remember how to truly love yourself and what gave, and gives, you pleasure.


To those of you who read this and think, “It’s easy for you to say, I can’t do it, I am too embarrassed, too afraid, too alone” I have this message for you: I was where you are, and it almost cost me everything. My first, brave step was admitting that there is so much more that I want and deserve. I started by discovering who I am, I prioritise myself, I have learned to love who I am and how to feel the pleasure I understand and deserve. I did it alone, it was tough, but I did it.


 I would love to join you on your journey. You can do it, you really, really can. So let’s start now, a world of wonderful experiences awaits!


Be Bold, Stay Playful