Unlike traditional vibrators that rely on direct contact and friction, clitoral suction toys work with air-pulse technology. Instead of rubbing, they create rhythmic pulses of pressure around the clitoris, delivering stimulation without overstimulation. For many people, that difference is everything. It feels more layered, more teasing, and often far more intense.
Choosing a vibrator shouldn’t feel like standing in front of a wall of shampoo bottles, wondering which one will change your life. Yet for many, that’s exactly how it feels. Too many options, too much jargon, and a lot of anxiety about buying “the wrong one.” The truth is simpler and far less intimidating: there is no universally “best” vibrator. There is only the one that suits how your body responds to touch.
Healthy relationships are not defined by doing everything “naturally” or without assistance. They are defined by curiosity, adaptability, and the ability to talk honestly about changing needs.
Sex toys are tools. They can be misused, ignored, or over-relied upon, just like anything else. Used thoughtfully, they help couples navigate desire over time, reduce pressure, and keep intimacy playful rather than brittle.
To peg or be pegged? What does it feel like? What need or desire does it fulfil? How can it enhance your relationship? Read on as we get all the intimate with a JHB couple around the subject...
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We agree, the phrase ‘Scheduled Sex’ doesn’t sound particularly sexy.
Let’s face it though, life creeps in to all the action that we could be having, and although we’ve been primed on the novelty of sex and the thrill of the chase, sometimes it just doesn’t pan out that way.