Looking to spice things up in love and life? Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and swinging are all about exploring connections honestly, safely, and consensually beyond the classic “one-partner-only” model. It might not be for everyone but can be a path to deeper trust, richer experiences and more fulfilling connections.
But before the night could even warm up, I was asked to pack away my display dildos. Not because they were causing harm. Not because anyone complained. But because they made other people at the same venue (attending a different function) uncomfortable...
Pre-piercing panic sets in on the day of the big event. You see, at the time of agreeing to have JacS over the thought process was simple: I want it to feel lekker, let's have a pleasurable 2025. FUCK YES! Done.
When the nerves catch up with you it’s more like HELL NO, but by then it's too late to cancel.
On top of that, I felt in touch with myself and my capacity as a man – and what all of that means – in a way so profound that it was almost spiritual.
I said it in a previous episode, but it’s worth repeating: the device may have been invented with the intent to emasculate, but with me, it was the opposite.I never felt more powerfully masculine than I did while caged.
With much anticipation I called my mother one night with the big idea. She had just retired and was over the moon at the thought of dispatching the many orders we were going to get from her garage.
"Carmies", she said, "How nice would it be if I crocheted complimentary nipple and willy warmers and put them in each box that was sent out?!"
At The Sex Expo, I had the pleasure of demonstrating theEros Uranus Remote Controlled Prostate Stimulator, affectionately dubbed the “boy bunny” due to its two vibrating probes reminiscent of the rabbit vibrator.
The remote-control feature took the experience to a new level of fun, especially since I could control the intensity while my bottom had to endure my evil little heart...