What is the purpose of an Erotic Blueprint? Well, it basically helps people better understand how they and their partners are most aroused.

By uncovering your bedroom personality type you’ll understand how best to create a space that turns you on and gets you excited about all things intimate! 

I’ve come across the Erotic Blueprint many times, did the quiz once, got distracted and never quite paid that much attention to it.

Now that it’s back in in my focus I’m wondering why I never paid more attention to it before. I guess I assumed (as we do) that I knew myself well enough to know what turns me on and what my preferences are - except I really didn’t!

We all love a quiz, especially when the feedback is so personalised. It’s quite an eye opening experience and gives you much to consider. Once you know what turns you on, you can choose the right combination of accessories to cater for your new found enthusiasm!

You can do the Basic Quiz for free here. It’s easy to navigate and the questions aren’t that elusive or uncomfortable to answer. There are only 10 questions and I worked through them all in under 5 minutes.

How did it come about?

Jaiya is an award-winning Somatic Sexologist with over two decades of clinical research and client observation under her belt. She is the creator of The Erotic Blueprints and the best-selling author of the books ‘Red Hot Touch’ and ‘Cuffed, Tied & Satisfied.’ 

Jaiyas experience as a Somatic Sexologist along with immersive study of ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, kinky dynamics, mastery of touch, and the biology & psychology behind turn on and attraction led her to discover this revolutionary map that gives everyone a path to unlocking life giving pleasure and orgasmic fulfillment in their body. 

During this intimate work, Jaiya noticed patterns of arousal and commonalities that create disconnection. What turned on one person, flat lined another.  

Jaiya tested this revolutionary new model for sexual communication professionally with hundreds of clients for over 5 years before she began sharing it with the world as a reliable framework.

The 5 Types of Blueprints

Energetic -  meaning being turned on by anticipation. "It's touching somebody before you're touching them," Jaiya explains.

Sensual - or being turned on when all sense are engaged. 

Sexual - feeling most turned on by traditional depictions of sex, like intercourse, porn, and nudity. Jaiya said this describes her. 

Kinky - or getting aroused by whatever's taboo to you, whether that's a particular sex toy, position, or scandalous thought. "What I find beautiful about the kinky is you could play in it the rest of your life and never have explored all there is to explore," Jaiya says.  

Shape Shifter - describes people who are turned on by all of it. Nothing is off limits for them! 


It’s a new year and a great time to explore new things!  Find out how much you are of each type and have fun with it!


As always, be bold & stay playful!


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