Sex Toys To Explore To Make Anal Play Less Scary

As more and more people venture out into the world of anal play, this sex trend continues to grow in popularity.

While this is at the top of many of our to-do lists, if we are to be completely honest, when it comes to anal toys there are a lot of very scary and intimidating options out there.

A lot of us aren’t used to the sensation of things going on back there, so not knowing where to start can turn people off before they even try. But it really doesn’t have to be so scary.

If you’re exploring with a partner make sure you’re clear on where your boundaries are, there’s no point in ruining a good thing before it’s even started.

Rule number 1. Lube is your friend, and most particularly when it comes to anal play. Remember, your peach is not self-lubricating, so to make it comfortable, pleasurable and most importantly to protect this delicate, potentially unexplored part of your body, you need to use lots and lots of lube!  



Just like vibrators, butt plugs come in all shapes, materials, and sizes. But if you're a newbie, you'll want to start with a small, slim model.

The Fun Factory Bootie is a tiny plug that’s a little bit bigger than your thumb which makes it a good choice for beginners. It’s cute and has a super-smooth silicone angle that slips right in. It’s flexible, body-safe and easy to clean.



Bejeweled behinds be! Surely it can’t be that scary when it’s so damn fancy?

A variety of simple spade shaped flare-based plugs exist whose main purpose is to enhance the outside appearance of the wearer as an accessory, like this Rosebud Classic Metal Butt Plug for example. It's a dainty 6.5cm in length and 2.9cm in diameter, which makes it a great choice for beginners. It also comes in a range of pretty colours and is designed for long-term wear.




Anal beads are a simple product that can bring a lot of excitement and variety to your sex life. The key to beads is not necessarily the feeling you feel when they are going in, but rather when you pull them out. Put them in and slowly pull out during intercourse, masturbation, or right before you’re about to orgasm for immense pleasure.

These small anal beads, from luxury brand Nexus, are made from silky smooth silicone and are perfect for beginners. As the beads do not vary in size, you can expect the same sensation from each one when pulling them out, making these a great choice for the start of your anal adventure. 



At some point in our lives, something has slipped into the peach. Whether accidentally or accidentally on purpose. If you’ve been experimenting with your trusted rabbit vibe in… uuum…. reverse, you’ll be particularly excited about Lovehoney’s Happy Rabbit Triple Curve. This double penetration vibrator takes the classic and trusted rabbit vibe, which targets your G-spot and clitoris and adds angled anal beads for incredible blended orgasms. Each section has it’s own motor to keep you buzzing where you most prefer it. It is also helpful for those who have ever fantasized about double penetration and would like to play around with it on their own before bringing in a partner.

 Happy Rabbit Triple Curve Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator - Adult Toys


Guys, we've got you covered!

The easy to use LoveToy Ultimate Silicone P-Spot Teaser fits perfectly into your body through its curved shape and provides intense prostate stimulation for some delicious P-spot play.

While the probe stimulates the prostate, the toy also puts pressure on the perineum, ensuring a full range of pleasure.


If you’re keen on experimenting with a vibrating plug, the B-Swish with remote control is a good place to start. It’s effective enough to give you a feel for what the vibe’s about without breaking the bank and it’s ideal for curious beginners or seasoned pros alike.

BSwish Remote Controlled Vibrating Anal Plug - Adult Toys

We have no doubt that once you’ve opened your back door to this idea, and enjoy it, you’ll be in for some mind-blowing play.

After all, you deserve it! Happy sexploring!


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