Kink isn’t hiding in the shadows anymore. More and more people are exploring their desires openly and I absolutely love how the scene is becoming part of everyday conversation!
But I also know that for many people, figuring out where to start can feel overwhelming. Whether this is your first foray into kink or you’re dreaming of building your own dungeon, the ideas are exciting… and slightly intimidating.
So, what is a dungeon really?
A dungeon doesn’t have to be dark, intimidating, or extreme. At its core, it’s simply a dedicated play space designed for consensual kink, safety, and exploration. That might mean one beautifully made statement piece — or a fully kitted fantasy room tailored to your desires.
There’s no right or wrong way to do it. There’s only your way.
If you’re feeling unsure, you’re not alone
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking:
- “I don’t know what I actually need”
- “I don’t want it to look cheap or unsafe”
Introducing: Dungeons & Dragons
We’re playing a new game, and I’m calling it Dungeons & Dragons.
This is our in-house dungeon design and custom furniture service, no fantasy roleplay required (unless that’s your thing 😉).
After years of educating, supporting, and walking alongside the kink community, this felt like a natural next step. We’re already passionate about your adventures — now we get to help shape the spaces where they happen.
- “I don’t even know where to start”
- “What if I do this wrong?”
Take a breath. These are the most common questions we hear and exactly why this next chapter exists.
Built with experience, intention, and style
I’ve pulled together an incredible team with hands-on skills, design sense, and deep industry know-how. Together, we custom build dungeon furniture and help design your space from the ground up.
Everything we create is highly customisable:
- A single statement piece
- Functional accessories
- Or a full dungeon setup
All tailored to your space, your style, and your fantasies.
Safety, consent, and durability are at the heart of everything we build - because kink is only hot when everyone feels secure.
See it. Touch it. Get inspired.
Want to experience some of the magic in person?
Furniture pieces are available to view and purchase at the Dragons Lair, aka the Play With Me shop in Lonehill. Come have a look, cop a feel, and get inspired for your own setup.
Let’s build something deliciously yours
Whether you’re just curious, actively planning, or already deep into your kink journey, we’re here to guide you without judgement, pressure, or awkwardness.
Reach out, pop into the shop, or start a conversation. Your dungeon doesn’t have to live only in your imagination 🔥
As always, be bold & stay playful,
Carmen
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need a whole room to create a dungeon?
Not at all. Many people start with a single statement piece or a discreet setup that fits into an existing room. A dungeon can grow with you.
Is dungeon furniture only for experienced kinksters?
Absolutely not. We work with complete beginners all the way through to experienced players. Education, safety, and comfort come first.
Can you help design around my space and lifestyle?
Yes. Every build is tailored to your available space, aesthetic preferences, and how you want to play whether that’s subtle, bold, or somewhere in between.
Is everything custom made?
Most of our pieces are customisable, and we also offer bespoke builds. You can choose finishes, sizing, and functionality to suit your needs.
How do I get started?
Start with a conversation. Pop into the shop or reach out online - no pressure, no judgement, just guidance.
Play With Me is a trusted South African adult store with over 8 years experience and discreet delivery nationwide. Visit us in-store at Play With Me, Shop C5, The Gantry, Cnr Witkoppen & Straight Ave, Lonehill, Sandton or enjoy 10% off your first online order.